The Carnal Issue//

Unsolicited advice: Intimacy isn’t something that can be scheduled into a Google calendar

We’re all busy people balancing assignments, work, friends, extracurriculars — it can be almost impossible to squeeze in some intimate moments. Unless you’re someone who maximizes pleasure by maximizing time or gets turned on by a full hour-by-hour, colour-coded schedule, I’d suggest leaving sex out of your bullet journal. When you have a time-slot to fill, it can be difficult to get going. A quickie in between classes is always fun, but it kinda kills the mood when you get a calendar notification 10 minutes before your next lecture.

Spontaneity is sexy. But if you’re too busy for it, a classic “Wyd?” when you have a free moment is a good way to start.